My Mama Raised Me....

My mother raised me to do many things. I thought that they were pretty crazy then, but every day I realize my mother is a very smart woman in all categories.
My Mama Raised Me...

• Try to keep your room/house clean before the weekend. So when you are ready to go out or have company, you won't have to clean up that much stuff.just the basics.
• Go out of your way for the people that you love. This can be your family, significant other, or extra special friends. That's what love does to you.
• Help people whenever you can. Even if they say they don't need any help, still do something even if it's small.
• During your period, take the trash out more often. No one wants that stank smell smelling up the bathroom or room.
• Be respectful to others, especially elders. Old people can't help themselves.They just like seeing young successful people. Give them a break.
• Give your clothes away if you don't wear them anymore. Some people aren't as fortunate.Think as if you weren't.
•  Don't lounge in your pajamas ALL day. You never know when you may invited somewhere & you always want to be ready to go.

I'm sure as each day I live and I continue to write I'll have more bullets. Keep watch of them.

Almost everyone has at least one friend. A friend that we go play with, have sleep overs with, go trick-or-treating with, share our day with. A friend that we play the game with, smoke with, drink with, watch porn with. A friend that we play a sport with, do homework with, study with, cheat on a test with.  This friend can do all of these things with us, some, or maybe just one. Most of the time when people describe what they want in a friend certain adjectives are always used. Loyal.Funny.Fun. "Real". Honest.
But HONESTLY, people don't want honest friends.They want a "friend" that tells them what they want to hear. They don't want to hear that they are sleeping around. They don't want to hear that their new hair cut or style is ugly. They don't want to hear that their jokes are not funny. They don't want to hear anything negative because alot of people think that THAT is what a friend is.
And it's always amusing to me, how some people honestly think that a friend wouldn't say these need to be said things.Think about it. Now if these need to be said things can't be said, then don't consider this person your friend. Associate...yes.Friend...maybe not so much.
The word friend is used so commonly now, that most of the time, it's used in the wrong fashion. "oh yeah, i just met him yesterday, he's in my class, he's my friend".no he's not. He's your classmate. A friend will want the best for you. A friend will tell you the truth. A friend will tell you the truth in whatever way you can handle it best. Blunt<-----or------>sugar coated. A friend will know how you can handle it best.
As kids we think that the more friends you have, the better you are, the happier you'll be. I mean shoot...isn't that why so many people add so many people on myspace, facebook, twitter? Yet as I have accumulated into the adult world, my circle of friends have shrunk. I am not everyone's friend & everyone is not my friend. You are not everyone's friend & everyone is not your friend.
Thankyou&goodnight

Virgin

I love my cousin. She inspires my creative side and I think that she knows when I need to be creative some how. In writing today, November 1, 2010. k_lovin took my virginity. She took it & now I will run with it. I have many theories about life, love, and everything else in between.  Yet the exterior of always smiling, joking,and "showing owt", it has been discovered that I'm not seen as very deep. But I am. I am way deeper than people realize. And I'm cool with that. If everyone knew my ways of life, they'd steal them and never give them back.
So as of now, I won't say much. I just lost my virginity in this art so it will take practice in releasing and expressing my thoughts. Practice though, does make perfect. Thankyou&goodnight.